Author: Ngoc Nguyen

Doing the work to make a company more diverse and working to create inclusive teams can sometimes feel as if we are climbing a mountain. On top of that, true change as an organization will take years. I am a bit impatient so I started thinking about what are ways we can make an immediate impact around me. In 2015, Google released findings from Project Aristotle, an internal research project spanning 2 years to answer the question “What makes an effective team at Google?” Google found the most important factor contributing to effective teams is psychological safety. Psychological safety, defined by Harvard Business School professor Amy Edmondson, is a belief that you will not be punished or humiliated for speaking up with ideas, questions, concerns or mistakes. In short, it is how comfortable individuals with taking risks and being vulnerable with their team. What might psychological safety have to do with diversity and inclusion? Everything. The old adage we hear is people don’t leave companies, they leave bad managers. I do not disagree, but I would argue being on a bad team is a major factor we don’t talk enough about. Diversity and inclusion starts at the team level. Managers have a responsibility to ensure they hire a diverse team. Research has shown when you work with people who are different from you, they challenge your thinking and sharpen your performance which leads to having a smarter team. However, when you have a team of people with a whole lot of opinions, good outcomes cannot happen without inclusion. Inclusion is the job of every single member on a team and a core part of inclusion is creating psychological safety for your team members. How to create inclusive teams: Be curious. It is important to recognize every person on your team brings with them a unique set of characteristics and experiences that influences how they might show up at work. Most of what you will not be able to infer based on observations. I don’t know about you, but from my corporate experience, I tend to be hesitant about voluntarily sharing aspects of myself in the workplace. However, when someone is genuinely curious and asks me questions, I am much more willing to share. Be the curious person on the team and lead by example. Start simple by finding out how they can contribute more to the team, questions could be:– What part of the job gets you most excited?– What are some strengths you bring to the team?– What’s something you’ve done recently that you are proud of? Listen and help others be heard. Asking a good question is a good start but you also need to actively listen to the answer. When you feel heard, you are willing to continue sharing information. It’s part of human nature, therefore the response you provide someone who voices an opinion helps to conditions them for the next time. Listening becomes increasingly important when you work on a diverse team because there’s a higher likelihood conflict will arise. Showing that you’re willing to listen, especially when you’re not in agreement with someone takes practice. However, those conflicts, when handled well could turn into innovative ideas and new ways to collaborate. Reframe failures. Let us be honest here, you’re a unicorn if you never make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes, some are minor and some have a large financial impact. Failure is hard to grapple with internally but can be even more brutal when there are witnesses. If it’s so common, why does it make us so embarrassed? The norms we’ve learned is to hide failures, keep silent and don’t push back – if we don’t see it, then how would we know if it’s common. We focus so heavily on execution when it comes to work, we would be better off if we think of it as a learning journey. The next time you make a mistake think about what happened? What can you do better? What bigger mistake did you avoid because of what you did? How will the incident help you in the future? Share what you learn and ask others for ideas on how you could have done it better. When others share with you a mistake, respond by asking them the same questions. Creating this dialogue opens the doors for others to be empowered to share their own experiences. Building a psychologically safe work environment and working to create inclusive teams requires a leader. The leader can be you, whether you have the title or not. This takes courage on your part but if you don’t do it, who will? Being on a good team makes all the difference at work to people individually. If we’re going to achieve corporate diversity and inclusion goals, we have to start with individuals and teams, to give them an example of how effective it is when people feel their unique perspective matters and is heard.

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As I’ve spent more time learning about the experiences of veterans, I’ve learned that one of the biggest challenges facing veterans is the transition into the civilian world and finding the right job or career post-service.  Translating military experience to corporate job skills is a challenging task, but it is certainly possible. We see similar struggles with many of our clients who are making a drastic career transition. Here are five tips to support veterans transitioning out of the military to find a fulfilling and successful career.   Rediscover who you are and what you have to offer. Take some time to reflect on who you are by considering your passions – the things that motivate you, your gifts – the skills you uniquely have that make you stand out, your values – what guides your behaviors and your purpose – how you want to make an impact. Then consider how you’ve lived these out in your military experience. What you did in the military will likely not be exactly what you’ll do in your upcoming job, but it can help to reframe your experience and identify the skills you’ve acquired throughout your service. O*Net, the Occupation Information Network and MOS Translator are great resources to help you identify the key skills from your military career and how you can translate it for the civilian world. Get clear with your goals.  “The world is your oyster, you can do anything!” Let’s be real, that’s not helpful right? The more specific and realistic the goals you set, the more likely you will reach them because it forces you to focus your energy.  Setting a goal can also help you timebox yourself so you don’t get stuck in a rut of analysis paralysis figuring out what to do next.  If you figured out that landing a role in marketing within 6 months is your goal, you can start right away looking at what skills are needed in marketing and identifying which skills translate. This article can help you set meaningful and impactful goals that you stick with. Refine your story for future employers.  Everyone loves a good story and it’s how we connect at the human level. In an ideal world, employers would be able to make the connection between your military experience and roles they are hiring for on their own.  In reality, they might not have time to think it through or don’t understand it will enough to make those connections. Take time to reflect on the value of your service, the skills you’ve picked up, how those skills match up with the job and how you decided this is the career you want to pursue. Be careful when you are in interviews to avoid acronyms and that you explain any relevant context for the interviewer to be able to understand your story. Focus on how your experience has prepared you for this position in particular. Don’t ignore the emotions you are feeling during this transition. Leaving the military can feel like you are losing your identity because this was who you were 24/7 for many years.  Letting go is challenging for anyone, so losing your identity abruptly can affect your self-esteem and self-worth.  Make sure you seek professional support if you are particularly struggling with the emotional aspects of this transition. A coach can be a great resource and will work with you to identify what you might be losing, what will stay the same and what you are taking with you to the next part of the journey.  They can be a sounding board for you and change the focus to what you’ve lost to thinking about what is possible in the future.  Create structure and an accountability strategy. You’ll want to create a regimented way to approach the job search.  The goals you’ve set in step two are only as good as your accountability structure to help you follow through with them.  It’s easy to get discouraged or distracted during a job search because it can be a long grueling journey.  This article will help you practice self-care during the job search, and this one will help you bounce back if things don’t go exactly as planned. You’ve learned how to be resilient when you served; you can do this! Additionally, we’ve created a program, The ALV Method, to take you step-by-step through this process if you are looking for more tailored and high-touch support. This list is just a start for your journey; like any good journey, there will be ups and downs, wins and losses. We are confident that your service has prepared you to not only navigate this journey like a pro but to also be a massive success as you start this new chapter in your career. If this post has sparked some other questions, and you’re interested in talking through them, book your complimentary consultation with an ALV coach here.

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Congratulations! You landed a job. Maybe you even thought this was going to be your dream job… but it’s turning out not to be at all what you thought you wanted. Don’t worry, you’re definitely not the only one who ends up feeling this way.  The difference between barely surviving the work day to actually thriving is in your control more than you might think.  Of course there are times when it’s just not the right fit, and you may want to consider a program to help you transition to something else. But sometimes you can make some tweaks to your actions and your outlook that will make all the difference. Regardless of whether you ultimately stay or go, here are some things you can do to make that not-so-great job into something awesome! Change your attitude.  You have to want to make the situation better for yourself; it won’t happen on its own.  Recognize it for what it is, but turn your focus toward what you could still get out of the experience by allowing yourself to see it as a building block to your ultimate career. There are a small number of people who magically will land their dream job after college.  For the rest of us, your first job is the probably best option you have at graduation. Not liking it is normal, what you do with it makes the difference!   Step back and evaluate. Chances are you don’t hate everything about the job.  Take a step back, reflect and make a list of specific things you love about the job, things you could learn to like and things you definitely do not like.  What does your list look like? I can guarantee there are some components you do love or want to like, otherwise you would not be here.  When I got out of school, I got a job as an underwriter at an insurance company. Unbeknownst to me it required a lot of sales.  I had done everything I could while job hunting to make sure I didn’t end up in a sales job because I was such an introvert! Instead of giving up,  I did my own reflection.  I realized I loved creative problem solving, analyzing information, making tough risk decisions and helping others.  I also had a really good boss and was in an industry that was recession-proof. Once I focused on the positive aspects, work became a much better place for me.   Find opportunities to do more of what you love.  Tell your manager and co-workers! They can’t read your mind. Talk about what you love and ask them to keep a look-out for projects where you know you will shine.  You never know what comes out of the woodwork when you let others know what you want.  I turned out to be a really good underwriter (minus the sales part) and because of the expertise I developed focusing on what I did well, I was the go-to person my coworkers approached when they were stuck with their work.   Learn more about the things you don’t like. Often times we don’t like something because we don’t understand it or we just don’t know how to do it well.  There will be parts of your job you don’t like, but you’ll have to do anyway.  Again, this is where attitude comes into play.  Why not commit yourself to learn and understand the task when you’re doing it instead of focusing on how much you don’t want to do it.  This is an area where you will grow the most from! I ended up leaving underwriting to pursue a different position that didn’t require sales.  Many years down the road, I was able to finally make the connection that sales was really about relationship building, listening to the customer and understanding their needs.  If I had given myself time and energy to understand more about how sales is about relationships more so than selling things, I would’ve kicked ass! Turns out it’s not much different than leadership coaching.   Relationships, relationships, relationships. No matter your feelings about a job, it is always important to build relationships with the people around you.  They’re the people you spend most of your time with and you never know when you might need them in the future.  Even beyond your everyday job, find ways to meet people outside your area.  I took opportunities to run the recruiting team at my first job and volunteered through work whenever I could.  It gave me the opportunity to take a break from my desk and also meet a variety of people across the company.  I was able to do things like run a workshop with our top human resources executive.  He was responsible for 30,000 employees, yet he knew me by name after that day. I also met people in other functions and it came in handy when I needed to get things done.  Like the guy from finance who was an Excel master.  (Pro-tip: Always find a friend who knows Excel really well.)   Walk-away. You can only try so much and it’s important to be happy at your job.  If you can’t find ways to make it work, you have to be able to walk-away.  Quitting a job is much harder than you think, even when you don’t like it.  When you’re faced with the choice, it could be easy to justify staying.  The fear of the unknown often prevents people from leaving something they’re familiar with. I know this first hand.  I didn’t leave my first job when I should’ve, I stayed an extra 2 years after I knew it wasn’t right anymore.  My last year there was miserable and it affected all areas of my life leading me to depression.  I often ask myself how far I’d be  in my career if I had the courage to leave earlier. And I’m telling you, it’s not worth it to stay where you know you

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