Career Clarity: Find Direction & Design a Career You Love

05/31/25 - By: Lauren Bonheim

Career Clarity isn’t just about choosing the “right job.” It’s about finally being able to exhale because something clicks. It’s about knowing that you’re on the right path, not just chasing someone else’s version of success.

Many people who come to us for career transition coaching are already ambitious, accomplished, and “doing great” on paper. But on the inside? Something feels off.

Take Alexandra. On paper, she had it all together. But she told us, “I was in a job I didn’t love and had no idea what I wanted to do with my career.”

She wasn’t lazy, wasn’t lacking talent. She was just tired. Tired of mindlessly scrolling the job boards and receiving half-baked advice. Tired of trying to figure it all out without a clear roadmap.

So, she intentionally made a change and got support.

Using the process outlined in this article, Alexandra stopped spiraling and found the clarity and confidence she was looking for.

And guess what? She didn’t just land the right role—she found that deeper sense of alignment she’d been chasing.

If you’re nodding along right now, this article’s for you. Let’s cut through the noise and help you find the career clarity (and confidence) you’ve been craving.

Why Having Career Clarity Matters

Getting clear on who you are now—what drives you, what’s changed, and what’s holding you back—isn’t just a fluffy “self-help” exercise. It’s the foundation of a fulfilling, sustainable career. Without it, you’re throwing darts in the dark.

As a Career Coach, one of the most common (and costly) mistakes I see most people make:

You’re feeling stuck or downright miserable in your current job, so you panic-search LinkedIn, start eyeing roles that look almost identical to the one you’re trying to escape and mass apply with the same outdated copy of your resume.

Sound familiar?

If you don’t slow down to gain career clarity and figure out why you’re unhappy in the first place, you’re just going to carry that confusion with you, into the next role, the next team, the next “maybe this time it’ll be better” leap.

It’s like moving across the world to “start fresh,” only to realize you packed all your problems in your carry-on. (I know from experience. 😬)

You don’t need another job you’ll dread in six months. You need a clear direction, purpose and a career path that feels like it was actually created for you.

This is exactly why the first phase of the Ama La Vida Career Method is all about looking inward before you launch your job search. Because a successful career transition doesn’t start with scrolling job boards, it starts with getting radically honest with yourself.

Look Inward First: Explore Your Strengths, Interests & Values

At Ama La Vida, we break career clarity into four parts: your passions, purpose, values, and gifts (aka your strengths). We’ve learned what works from experience guiding thousands of clients through career transitions. The magic is truly in the self-reflection.

As our COO, Foram puts it: “Our clients find the most insight during their self-exploration, which not only helps them figure out a career path that they may not have thought out but also allows them to carry these insights into their daily life. It’s a win-win!”

The clarity you uncover now won’t just help with your next career move. It will support you for the long haul in different areas of your life.

So before you scroll through another job board or rewrite your resume, start here:

What Lights You Up? (Your Passions & Interests)

You don’t have to turn every passion into a paycheck, but weaving some of them into your work will keep things fun and fulfilling.

These are the things that make you lose track of time. The things you’d do even if no one paid you (but, please, still get paid). Think hobbies that you pursue in your free time, topics that energize you, or the kinds of work that leave you buzzing rather than burned out.

Reflection questions:

  • What do you do in your spare time just for fun?
  • What tasks at work give you energy instead of draining it?
  • What could you talk about for hours and not get bored?

What Are You Naturally Good At? (Your Gifts & Talents)

These are the technical skills, strengths, and quirks that make you, well, you. Maybe you’re the go-to for keeping calm amidst the chaos. Or the one who can build a killer project plan spreadsheet in under 10 minutes.

These gifts are the secret sauce that make you shine.

Reflection questions:

  • What do people consistently thank you for?
  • When do you feel most confident at work?
  • What tasks do you find easy that others seem to struggle with?

What Matters Most? (Your Values)

This is the piece almost everyone skips. But ignoring it is like building the foundation for your dream home on quick sand. (Spoiler: it won’t hold.)

Your values pretty much influence everything you do. And if they don’t, you’re most likely feeling misaligned.

Values should come into play when you make any kind of decision, including assessing career choices, what kind of work culture best fits you, and whether or not you’ll feel aligned in your role.

Not everybody will thrive in a highly structured, rules-driven organization. But on the flip side, not everyone feels comfortable in a fast-moving, loosely defined environment either. If you value creativity, innovation, and agility, a workplace bogged down by red tape probably won’t be the best fit. But if you crave stability, clear expectations, and a dependable routine, a startup-style culture with constant pivots might leave you feeling overwhelmed.

Knowing your values helps you recognize what’s truly non-negotiable. It’s what keeps you grounded when making tough decisions or evaluating options, and helps you understand why something may feel off.

Reflection questions:

  • What’s a non-negotiable for you at work?
  • What kind of work culture allows you to thrive?
  • When have you felt “off” at a job, and why?

Why Does It All Matter? (Your Purpose)

Before you panic and try to write a life manifesto, take a deep breath. This isn’t about solving all the world’s problems. It’s about identifying the kind of impact you want to make in this season of your career.

Your purpose probably will change and evolve along with you. What matters is that it’s meaningful to you in some way.

Reflection questions:

  • Who or what do you feel called to serve or support?
  • What impact do you want to have in your day-to-day work?
  • If you looked back in five years, what would make you feel proud?

But, What If I Don’t Know?

Not knowing is more common that you think. You’re here reading an article looking for career clarity after all!

We work with plenty of brilliant humans who come to us feeling completely stuck. And honestly? That’s exactly what career coaching is for.

Unlike those one-size-fits-all online career assessments that make you check boxes and declare your passion in 30 seconds (no pressure), we take you on a customized journey to uncover what excites you, what you’re good at, and what matters to you most.

Small reflections can lead to big insights. And if you think you already know this stuff? We’d still say to do the work. We coach experienced professionals, leaders, MBA students, and executives through this process, who are surprised by what they discover every single time.

These answers aren’t static and you’re bound to learn something. You might be surprised by what surfaces—or finally get confirmation of that hunch you’ve been quietly noodling on for months.

Explore Your Career Options

Once you’ve done the deep inner work (shoutout to you for that, by the way), it’s time to turn your gaze outward. Think of this as the “what’s possible?” phase — and the goal here isn’t to pick the one right job. It’s to explore new opportunities and generate career options.

At Ama La Vida, we treat your passions, values, gifts, and purpose as your personal North Star. From there, we work with you to create a list of various industries, roles, and titles to explore, some familiar, some you might not have even heard of yet.

This is where things start to feel exciting and real. Where you get out of the “stuck” stage and in to discovery mode.

Tips to find career clarity to get unstuck in your career.

Leverage AI to Expand Career Possibilities

AI can be an incredible tool for sparking new ideas, spotting patterns, and surfacing surprising possibilities.

Copy your list of passions, values, gifts, and goals into ChatGPT and try a prompt like: “Based on this list, what are some careers across various industries that might be a good fit for me?”

You’ll be surprised how this simple prompt can spark new ideas, fuel creative thinking, and surface job ideas you didn’t even know existed. It’s less about finding the job and more about expanding your possibilities and planting seeds for future roles or opportunities that you can start positioning yourself for today.

Start with Companies of Interest

Another idea is to take an organization-first approach. So, forget job titles for a second. Let’s start with vibes. What organizations feel like a match? Which ones share your values, champion causes you care about, or just make you think, “Wow, I’d love to be part of that team?”

Once you’ve got a shortlist of dream companies, dig in. Look at their different departments and scan their job descriptions. Pay special attention to the roles and titles they use as these can often differ from company to company.

This doesn’t mean you have to apply right now. You’re simply starting to connect the dots between what excites you and how that might show up across different careers.

Build Your Network & Talk to Professionals

Another great way to explore different career options and opportunities is to start talking to real humans working in the jobs you’re curious about.

This is your chance to research through talking to people in roles, industries, and companies that are aligned with your interests. You can even set up informational interviews to dig deep and ask them questions such as how they got started, what surprised them and what advice they’d give their younger selves.

Get Insider Knowledge with Informational Interviews

What the heck is an informational interview? Well, it’s very different from a job interview.

It’s simply a conversation where you learn about another professional’s career journey and ask questions to get the inside scoop on their company or explore different fields you’re curious about.

Let’s say you’re into environmental advocacy, but you have zero connections in that world. You can start by finding people on LinkedIn who work at eco-focused organizations, and then shoot them a customized message to ask if they’d be open to sharing about their experience.

The key is to prepare! Come ready with questions like:

  • How did you get into this field?
  • What’s your day-to-day actually like?
  • What advice do you have for someone just starting out?
Photo of a woman on a video chat informational interview.

Here’s why this matters:

One of our clients, let’s call her Jenna, reached out to someone at her dream company [Airbnb] and asked to connect over coffee. They hit it off. Jenna kept in touch, showed up for her new connection’s workshops and events, and genuinely nurtured that relationship over the years.

So when a job finally opened up at Airbnb that Jenna knew was the one, she reached out. Even though her contact didn’t work there anymore, she still connected Jenna with the hiring manager. You can probably guess what happened next: Jenna got the job!

That’s the power of an informational interview done right. It’s not about schmoozing. It’s about connection, curiosity, and planting seeds that just may grow into something beautiful.

Don’t forget to take notes, send a thank you, and let them know you’d love to stay in touch if any further information comes to mind.

Narrow Down Your Options

Here’s the part where many people freeze: starting to narrow in on paths forward. After all the soul-searching, journaling, and “What do I want to be when I grow up” reflection, narrowing it all down can feel like a big, scary commitment. Like you’re closing the door on all the things you could do.

I’d like to offer a reframe. Narrowing down doesn’t limit you—it frees you!

It gives you something to explore more deeply and take action on. And action is where clarity lives. (But we’ll get to that in a moment.)

You’ve done the research. Now it’s time to dig into job descriptions, understand the experience and education requirements and start to think critically about how each option lines up with your ideal lifestyle.

From there, we shrink the list to five options. Then three. Not because the others weren’t worthy, but because momentum requires focus.

Here are a few reflection questions as a first step:

  • When you imagine yourself doing this job on a random Tuesday, how does it feel in your body?
  • Which of these paths aligns most with the life you want outside of work?
  • If you had to commit to exploring just one option for the next 30 days, which one are you secretly hoping it would be?

Give yourself permission to choose. Not forever. Just for now. You can’t figure out what actually works until you give it a try.

Take Action to Gain Clarity

Thinking about jumping in and taking action on a new job can feel like standing at the edge of a cliff, especially if you’ve already invested time, money, and energy into figuring out what direction you want to go in.

But waiting to take action until you have it all figured out is often the roadblock to figuring it all out. It becomes a vicious cycle.

Our COO, Foram, reminds her clients: “You started coaching to grow, not to stay comfortable. So let go of the pressure to pick the ‘perfect’ career. No choice is permanent. So let yourself go. Just explore, experiment, and see what clicks.”

Below are a few ways to take intentional action and gain experience while exploring different careers. These actions can help you test run potential options while getting a better idea of where you want to go next.

Volunteer to Try New Experiences

Volunteering is underrated. It lets you dip your toe into different worlds of work, build new skills, meet people doing work you admire, and gain experience, all without the pressure of a full-time pivot.

You can offer a skill you already have in a totally new industry, or stretch yourself by learning something new in a familiar field. Either way, you’re expanding your toolbox and your perspective.

Platforms like Catchafire make it easy to find volunteer gigs that align with your skills and interests.

Volunteers handing hot drinks to people experience homelessness

Seek Apprenticeships or Take a Course

Sometimes the fastest way to learn is to go straight to the source. Short-term courses, bootcamps, or apprenticeships can offer just enough exposure to know whether a new path is worth pursuing (and you’ll gain valuable skills in the process!).

Look for programs that offer real-world projects, mentorship, or networking opportunities, all of which can give you a better understanding of whether that shiny new role is a great career choice.

Freelance, Consult, or Start a Micro-Business

Whether you take on one small client or finally take the leap and start your own business, this kind of hands-on experimentation often brings more career clarity than months of thinking ever could.

Not ready to make a huge leap? Try a side hustle. Freelancing lets you build skills, test-drive a business idea, or explore an industry before fully committing.

Take our client, Elise. She started baking sourdough bread on weekends, mostly to unwind from her 9-to-5. It wasn’t a business plan. It was just something she genuinely loved. And others did too.

Friends started buying loaves. Then their friends did too. Before long, Elise was running a full-blown side hustle.

Today? She runs a micro-bakery and sourdough subscription club that’s on track to replace her full-time income. The best part? She didn’t need to have it all figured out. She just followed her curiosity and let the path unfold from there.

Photo of a woman making sourdough as passion project in quest for career clarity.

Overcome Mental Barriers Holding You Back

Sometimes, the real block to gaining career clarity isn’t a lack of information, it’s mindset.

Through supporting thousands of clients in defining their next career steps, we’ve seen first hand how mindset blocks can cloud clarity. We’ve heard it all:

  • “I don’t think that’s actually possible for me.”
  • “I’m not qualified.”
  • “What will others think?”

We believe that deep down most people already know what they want. But years of conditioning, self-doubt, fear, and internalized opinions from others can blur that vision and make it feel out of reach.

That’s why clarity alone often isn’t enough.

To Make a Successful Career Transition You Need 3 Cs:

  • Clarity around what you want to do next
  • Courage to go after it
  • Commitment to make it happen

Many people believe that if they can just find the career clarity, the rest will fall into place. In our experience, courage and commitment are even more difficult to achieve, and just as important.

We’ve worked with countless clients who say they’ve been thinking about a career transition for years and blame lack of vision for their inaction. But more often than not there is some kind of fear involved. Fear of failure. Fear of rejection. Fear of what others will think.

That’s where coaching comes in.

An infographic that explains how to reframe your limiting beliefs and find career clarity.

Ready to Stop Spinning and Start Moving?

Somewhere along the way, we picked up this ridiculous idea that we should be able to figure out our entire careers path in a vacuum. No input. No support.

But let’s be real: even the most high-achieving professionals need a sounding board. Someone who isn’t afraid to ask the tough questions (and give a gentle nudge when you’re avoiding that resume draft for the fifth time).

That’s exactly what we do at Ama La Vida. We pair personalized coaching with a proven method that actually works. No fluff. No generic advice. Just real conversations, tools that spark momentum, and the space to figure out what you actually want next.

Whether you’re craving purpose, direction, or just a little less dread on Monday morning, we’ve got your back. You don’t have to navigate this journey to uncovering your future career alone.

Book a free consultation and let’s talk about how Ama La Vida Coaching can help you find the career clarity (and momentum) you’ve been searching for.

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